Today I lost a very good friend, one I’ve known for 18 years…one who no matter what decision I made or didn’t make stuck by my side. She never judged whether it was right, wrong, good or really stupid. She just stuck by me. She traveled with me with her bowl and her blanket trusting that I made the right decision even when I wasn’t sure. And if I hadn’t, well, she didn’t judge me, she simply curled up on top of me at night with a purr and a kiss, and you know, it wasn’t until now that I realize how comforting that was.
This little girl decided to spare me the agony of her passing. She decided to wait until I was gone to pass to wherever you pass to next that is not in this realm. Yes I knew she was 18 and that is old for a cat, but I guess in some weird sense, I trusted this loyal friend would always be there, yes, not realistic.
My comfort is that perhaps she was a secret Elizabeth Taylor fan and wanted to dump me to be Ms. Taylor’s companion. What I can say is I miss her already and the tears don’t seem to want to stop tonight.
We are truly blessed when some loyal companion decides to hitch their ride with you for a long journey that may be tough at times. I’m blessed Charlie that you stuck with me and tell Ms. Taylor to be good to you. You are one good girl.
Just my take.. 
Evie Gordon-Longley
March 24, 2011
Dearest Deb,
I’m so truly sorry for your loss today.
Charlie was a well loved cat/companion and knowing what you two have been through recently, I’d say her mom was well loved in return.
Your tears are there to wash away the hurting and sadness, to make room for the beautiful memories to remain in a tranquil place.
Of course Charlie would go visit Dame Elizabeth Taylor, nothing but the best for Charlie. Why change her pattern now?
But I think her spirit will wish to always be near to her real mom. The one who has given 18 years to her, no one can better *that* gift, my friend.
R.I.P. Charlie xxx Dream sweetly.
A hug for your mom xxx
debdobson
March 24, 2011
My friend, I don’t know what I would have done without you today, truly. I miss the old cat so much. You are such a good friend and I’m forever grateful for that. That helps with losing my 18 year old friend. RIP Charlie
Julie
March 24, 2011
Hey girl,
I’m so sorry to hear about Charlie. I’d call/text but I can’t find my phone. After losing my boys at 22 years, I grieved for a long time before I picked up Jacy. Now I can’t image my house without her and it’s only been 2 years this weekend. I will never grieve that long again. My heart aches for you. Take comfort that while Charlie has decided to move on, she knows she will never find a better friend. You will meet again that I do know. Sending you hugs and love long distance and wishing you happy days ahead.
debdobson
March 24, 2011
Ah my friend thank you. One painful day today. The place seems so empty without her. Give yourself a hug and thank you for your kind comment.
jillianwv
March 24, 2011
Sorry to hear you lost your best bud today….My buddy, Scratch, lived to be 21 and it also seemed like he would always be around. I know how hard it is but concentrate on the joy you shared. Don’t even try to stop the tears. It doesn’t work! They will stop in time but the memories will live forever.
Vidocq
March 24, 2011
I am so very sorry to hear this, Deb. At least I know Evie’s Phuj will keep her company.
Take care and let me know if I can do anything to help.
Best, Vidster
debdobson
March 24, 2011
Vidster, thank you so much. I get comfort knowing Evie’s Phuj will take her in and keep her company. I appreciate you.
Best, Deb
debdobson
March 25, 2011
@jillianwv Thank you for your kind words. Seems impossible to stop the tears. Perhaps Scratch and Charlie will become buds. I’m blessed for the 18 years she gave me full of purrs and hugs. She was a very good cat.